Looking for an old Japanese animation movie

I’m looking for a Japanese animation movie, the movie should be released at least before 2012, I will say probably between 1990-2012

The plot is about a girl decided to elope with her boy friend and had a fight with her father,

She has 2 children, the older one is a daughter,

There’s a scene that her daughter walked on a railway on a bridge, and a train came through, she had to jump off the bridge to dodge it.

The movie I think is mostly talking about family relationship, about the protagonist learning the feeling of being a parent, and started to understand her father’s anger when she decided to elope with her boy friend.

Although I remember most lot the plot, I just can’t find the name of the movie…