This is a movie that I watched with my mother maybe 6 years ago. I remember everything about it and have been looking for it on and off for a couple years, but can’t for the life of me find it!
It starts off with a young woman who lives with her mother and is pushed around by other people, especially at her job. She finds out she has terminal cancer, and decides not to take treatment. Her doctor is an old friend and is in love with her. She quits her job and makes a bucket list. Following her list, she goes to a ski resort, where she meets a rich guy and falls in love. The complete things on her list like falling in love, and learning how to tango. She cuts her hair and gains a lot of confidence and ability to speak up for herself. She and the guy get married, and then it skips to a year later where it is apparent she has somehow survived a treatment she decided to take…
I think it was an english film but it might have been in some germanic/nordic language since my mother watches many european movies. We watched it on Amazon, or mayybeeee Netflix. I got the impression it was a late 2000’s/early 2010’s movie…